Divorce is an emotionally charged process. As a result, it can be tempting to turn to social media to vent, seek support and/or share updates while a divorce unfolds. However, if you’re going through a divorce, know that your social media activity can significantly impact the outcome of your case. From custody disputes to property division, what you post online can be used as evidence against you.
Anything that you – and others – post online is fair game in a divorce case. Pictures, comments and even tagged locations can be scrutinized by opposing counsel to challenge your claims or paint you in an unfavorable light. For example:
- Photos of expensive purchases could be used to argue against claims of financial hardship
- Check-ins at social events or vacations could be portrayed as neglecting parental responsibilities
- Posts criticizing your spouse may be used to demonstrate hostility, which can affect custody decisions
And it’s not just your posts that matter. Your friends’ and family’s activity on social media can also impact your case. A well-meaning friend posting about your lifestyle or commenting on your situation could inadvertently provide evidence for your ex, should your divorce become adversarial.
Privacy settings aren’t a guarantee
Even if your accounts are private, information can still become accessible. Mutual friends, screenshots or subpoenas can bring your private posts into the courtroom. It’s safest to assume that nothing online is truly confidential during a divorce. As such, you’ll want to:
- Avoid posting about your divorce, finances, or personal life
- Refrain from commenting on your spouse’s posts or engaging in online arguments
- Review past posts for anything that could be misinterpreted or used against you
When you’re going through a divorce, social media activity can do more harm than good. By logging off, you can more effectively minimize risks, protect your legal standing and prioritize your emotional well-being.